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Judges 13:2-14
2 There was a certain man of Zorah, of the tribe of the Danites, whose name was Manoah. His wife was barren, having borne no children. 3 And the angel of the Lord appeared to the woman and said to her, “Although you are barren, having borne no children, you shall conceive and bear a son. 4 Now be careful not to drink wine or strong drink, or to eat anything unclean, 5 for you shall conceive and bear a son. No razor is to come on his head, for the boy shall be a nazirite to God from birth. It is he who shall begin to deliver Israel from the hand of the Philistines.” 6 Then the woman came and told her husband, “A man of God came to me, and his appearance was like that of an angel of God, most awe-inspiring; I did not ask him where he came from, and he did not tell me his name; 7 but he said to me, ‘You shall conceive and bear a son. So then drink no wine or strong drink, and eat nothing unclean, for the boy shall be a nazirite to God from birth to the day of his death.’”
8 Then Manoah entreated the Lord, and said, “O Lord, I pray, let the man of God whom you sent come to us again and teach us what we are to do concerning the boy who will be born.” 9 God listened to Manoah, and the angel of God came again to the woman as she sat in the field; but her husband Manoah was not with her. 10 So the woman ran quickly and told her husband, “The man who came to me the other day has appeared to me.” 11 Manoah got up and followed his wife, and came to the man and said to him, “Are you the man who spoke to this woman?” And he said, “I am.” 12 Then Manoah said, “Now when your words come true, what is to be the boy’s rule of life; what is he to do?” 13 The angel of the Lord said to Manoah, “Let the woman give heed to all that I said to her. 14 She may not eat of anything that comes from the vine. She is not to drink wine or strong drink, or eat any unclean thing. She is to observe everything that I commanded her.”
Written by Susan Craig
Susan is a member and runs the Room at the Inn Ministry and participates in many others.
14 She must not eat anything that comes from the grapevine, nor drink any wine or other fermented drink nor eat anything unclean. She must do everything I have commanded her.
As I’m not much of a biblical scholar, reading this short verse in the book of Judges about commanding her to do things prompts me to think not of Samson (who this story is about), but of the judgments and rules commanded of women in our current times, and the inequality and injustice those rules and expectations have wrought. I think of the pandemic and how it has disproportionately affected women, who are caring for the sick, schooling their children, and losing jobs. They are far more likely to leave the workforce when there is stress on the family unit because the pay gap means they often make less than their partner.
I think of how as a nation we’ve prioritized businesses like restaurants and bars - and freedom to make personal choices – over focusing resources on the important business of educating our children and doing what’s best for the greater good. I know I’m leaning into gender stereotypes, but I can’t help thinking that a few more women in charge would change these priorities for the better.
This verse also prompts me to think of how these systemic injustices are often justified by the Bible, and how religion can be used to constrain, rather than empower women. This verse is so patronizing – couched in protective terms but insinuating that a woman can’t protect herself during pregnancy. (The woman in the story doesn’t even have a name – she is simply “wife of” Manoah.)
Fortunately, I can take this scripture seriously without taking it literally. While there are some who may think protecting and commanding women is still appropriate, there is growing evidence to the contrary. KAMALA! And we are behind the curve in the United States. Jacinda Ardern in New Zealand and Angela Merkel in Germany have already demonstrated how a feminist lens can be powerful by both leading and nurturing their countries.
And on a smaller scale, no one is commanding me to do anything. No one can tell me to not drink a glass of wine!
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